Your relationship matters!
A strong spiritual center is at the heart of our solution-focused life and relationship coaching!

We believe people have the ability to value their love in such a way that they can change their relationships and lives for the better.

And we can help you do just that!

Sarah, with a Master of Divinity degree and concentration in Pastoral Care and Counseling, comes from a place of empathy, compassion, and the ability to see and hear what isn’t readily apparent or available to her clients so that you can get unstuck and get back to making your relationships ideal for you.

She helps you untangle current relationship challenges or chronic, long term relationship issues so that you can improve your marriage or romantic partnership.

If you are hoping to fall in love and make the next relationship really work, she can help you prepare yourself for the next time you fall in love.

Sarah also mentors clients in the art of self-love for those who know the pain of negative self-talk, self-sabotage, even self-hate.

Joseph is a counselor in the Order of the Magi; bringing forty years experience with and mastery of Jyotish Astrology, seventeen years experience with and mastery of The Cards of Your Destiny, as well as numerous encounters with enlightened masters to his work. He can provide you with readings and coaching that help you take yourself and your relationship to their next highest expression.

Joseph is a master at helping clients unlock the unseen potential of their personalities, relationships, and the dynamics between the two.

Our approach supports you as the author of the love in your life. Whether you want to:

  • Win a woman’s love
  • Attract a man and keep him
  • Fix a broken relationship
  • Build your marriage
  • Increase intimacy
  • Spice up your relationship
  • Learn new ways to say “I love you”
  • Better handle the mama’s boys & daddy’s girls in your life
  • Create a better relationship with you!
  • Or go deeper in your relationship with the Holy

 We can help you reach your goals!

To work with Sarah, email her at SarahElizabethMalinak@gmail.com to schedule an appointment.

To work with Joseph, email him at Joseph@JosephMalinak.com to schedule an appointment. 

And remember! This site is full of information and resources for helping you create your very own ideal relationship!

Relationships can’t be perfect but they can be ideal. Your relationship becomes ideal when you become the author of it – when you take responsibility for creating from, with, and through it a life that works!

Whether you work with Sarah or Joseph, our approach supports you as the author of the love in your life. We can help you make a difference for yourself and the one you love!

Sarah & Joseph Malinak, authors and co-owners of & coaches at Creating Ideal Relationships, LLC

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“Create the Love You Want: Five Unique Steps to Improve your Marriage” (or any relationship in your life!)

You don’t have to depend on being specially gifted or just plain lucky when it comes to relationships. You can learn the secret for yourself, apply it, and begin to create the love you want right now.

This secret to relationship success is direct, simple, and effective. We and others have used it to transform marriages that felt burdensome and hurtful into marriages filled with love and satisfaction. You can discover this secret for yourself in the e-workbook called “Create the Love You Want: Five Unique Steps to Improve Your Marriage.” Go here and order your copy right now. You can begin making a difference in your relationship by tonight!

What’s new at IdealRelationships.com

Getting Back to Love is now available on Kindle!

Getting Back to Love is about the unique relationship challenges facing adult mama’s boys and adult daddy’s girls! And now, if you’d like to read about how the mama’s boy / daddy’s girl dance impacts your marriage or romantic relationship on the privacy of your Kindle, it is yours!

Here’s the link: Getting Back to Love on Kindle

Enjoy it! May it bless your life and the lives of those you love! And if it does so bless your life, please share the word about it.


Our podcasts are now organized by topic and are something we are so proud to be able to share! Go here to find shows suited to your needs. Each show features interviews with notable guests as well as conversations between Joseph and Sarah Elizabeth for the tips and advice you’re looking for to create your ideal relationship.


Latest blog entry: Read here…

The book that is making a difference in people’s lives (couples and singles) before they finish reading it!

Have you ever caught yourself referring to your husband as your third child when you only have two children? Does the conversation between you too often become competitive, disintegrating into arguments that are not on topic?

Husbands: Husbands, do you too often feel like you cannot make her happy no matter how hard you try? Do you wonder what happened to the loving, sexy woman you fell in love with?

Getting Back to Love: When the Pushing and Pulling Threaten to Tear You Apart is about the romantic challenges facing mama’s boys and daddy’s girls! Available in soft cover as well as a PDF download, to learn more click here!

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